Don't Be Too Critical
When there are disagreements, especially over things like politics and religion, which involve values that are near and dear to us, sometimes we cannot help but

be critical of rather minor differences of opinion. However, this habit of criticiz -

ing what others believe, besides being potentially obnoxious, often puts up a wall between us, thereby preventing us from genuinely listening to the other

person and what they are saying. When people discuss these sorts of

issues, it may be best to simply listen and try to really understand what they

are saying, and perhaps even why they are saying it. In so doing, we may

actually find some area of commonality between our view and theirs, rather than just looking for the differences. And although this can be a difficult thing to do, especially if we are convinced that they are wrong, with time and some effort, listening sympathetically will allow us to more fully hear what others are actually saying to us. The mind of the wise makes his speech judicious, and adds persuasiveness to his lips. Pleasant word s are like

a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body. R.S.V. Proverbs 16.23-24